How To Approach Women
If you have ever been single and out looking for your perfect woman then I am sure you have spotted someone you wanted to say hello to. In this article I will give you some tips on how to approach women. Finding women is only the start of the fun.
How to approach women – Tip 1. Be noticed.
You really have to put yourself in a position to be noticed. If you are in a club or somewhere then you should try to get yourself into a position where women will see you as they enter the room. You can then watch where they go and who they might be sitting with. You can see if any guys are approaching them and what their reaction is. If you are not at a club then you still need to be noticed. If you know the woman you are interested in starts work at 9am then make sure you are somewhere she can see you on a regular basis at that time of day. Become part of her morning routine until you work up the courage to say hello.
How to approach women – Tip 2. Make eye contact.
Whilst simple this can be extremely daunting for some guys. Everyone has heard the eyes are the window to the soul but there is a lot more to it than that. Once you have been noticed you need to look her in the eyes and make sure she sees you looking. If she looks away and doesn’t look back then time to find another target, but if she looks back quickly then you are in with a chance.
How to approach women – Tip 3. Smile.
Women love a nice smile and it shows you are a warm friendly person when you smile at someone. You have been noticed, she has seen you looking at her so now is the time to look at her and smile. Make sure she sees your smile and if need be nod your head and raise your eyebrows as if you are saying hello from the other side of the room. It is a simple friendly gesture that will quickly show you if she is remotely interested in you.
How to approach women – Tip 4. Watch her reactions.
The way she reacts to you everything you have already done will give you the best indication if she is interested or just being friendly to you. When she looks away and looks back does she tilt her head to one side and maybe flick her hair? If she does then she is definitely interested in you. If she moves slightly in your direction or crosses her legs so they are more or less pointing at you, then you better get off your butt and go say hello quick smart.
How to approach women – Tip 5. Say Hello.
The hard work is all done. You have learnt how to approach women. All you need to do now is get up and go say hello to her. Be confident as you walk across the room and keep looking at her. Look for more reactions to give you an indication of how interested she really might be. As you approach don’t be surprised if she looks the other way. She may feel a little shy and embarrassed as well so she will look the other way. Just get her attention and say hello. There is nothing hard about that at all. Introduce yourself and ask for her name. Tell her you saw her from across the room and had to come and introduce yourself. Ask simple questions and build the conversation from that. Show interest in what she is saying and ask more questions about what she tells you. Offer to buy her a drink and sit down with her. Give her a compliment and thank her for being so friendly. Tell her it’s nice to meet nice people. Remember though it’s your job to listen and find out as much about her as you can. Then you can use that later on.
So there you have it, a quick lesson on how to approach women. Now that you are chatting with her you certainly have the opportunity to ask her out. Obviously don’t rush into that. Be guided by the way the conversation is going and if she is showing any real interest in you as well. Have fun with it and if it doesn’t work out then try again.