If you don’t know how to pick up a girl then how are you ever going to get her into bed?  Picking up a girl is the beginning of either a meaningful loving relationship or the start of a night of passion and hot fun.  There is nothing wrong with learning how to pick up a girl and if you don’t know how then you are really doomed to a life of loneliness.  I know when I was younger I got picked up by the girl who I eventually married and 18 yrs later when we were divorced I had no idea how to pick up a girl.  But I can tell you that learning how to pick up a girl is at least half the fun.

If you see a girl you like and you want to try and pick her up just go and say hello.  That is really the easy part.  If she is not available then she will soon tell you. If she is not interested she will tell you even sooner.  It doesn’t really matter how beautiful she is either, women are pretty much all the same.  In fact if you ask a beautiful single girl why she is single, she will more than likely tell you that she thinks guys are too scared to talk to her.  Beautiful women can appear to be intimidating when they are in reality the same as anyone else.

Once you have found the girl you are interested in and have said hello to her and the conversation is rolling along you are well on your way.  You need to listen to what she is saying and expand on anything that she really shows some interest in.  If you watch guys that are good at picking up girls they really show interest in whatever the girl is talking about.  I mean if she is talking about it then she must be interested.  Don’t try and give a better example of what she is saying and don’t argue with her.  If she says something you disagree with then use this method to tell her you disagree.  Just say I understand how you feel about that, I used to feel the same way but guess what I found.  It is the feel, felt, found method and works like a charm.

Another must if you want to learn how to pick up a girl is to show her complete respect.  Ensure you are polite and don’t interrupt her when she is speaking.  Ensure you keep her as the focus of conversation and don’t let your eyes drift off onto the butt of some other girl as she walks past.  If you do that then she will pick you for a player and this game is over.  Don’t stare at her breasts or make any rude comments about her or her friends.  If you don’t have anything nice to say about someone, don’t say anything at all.  Remain positive in everything you say and do and be the happy person who always has something nice to say about someone else.  Make sure you do what your mother taught you as well.  Open and close doors, let girls go first at the bar and remember to say please and thank you.  Manners and respect go a long way.

Another tip if you want to learn how to pick up a girl is to maintain eye contact when you are talking to her.  We already know we can’t stare at her breasts so where do you look.  Look straight into her eyes.  You can glance away occasionally so she doesn’t feel threatened, but make sure you are looking into her eyes when she is talking and you are talking to her.  Couple that with a smile and if the girl has any interest in you at that stage you will be taking her home in no time at all.  Women love it when men smile and they love it when you look deep into their eyes.

My final thoughts on how to pick up a girl is when you are talking touch her gently on the arm if she is showing any kind of interest.  Don’t make it an obvious touch that you are trying to do but rather when you are chatting reach over to her upper arm and say ‘hey’ do you know what I found the other day, or what I was thinking?  Maybe use that technique when you are asking her to dance with your or you are offering to buy her a drink