You might think that I have actually spelt that wrong and should be talking about women, but believe it or not, in many countries the term woman is also the plural.  So when we talk about how to pick up woman we are targeting people from that part of the world.  New Zealand is a prime example of a culture where Woman is used as the plural. As an Aussie I should probably ask why I would write an article on this subject when more Kiwis are probably searching for ways to pick up sheep.  ;) Ok so now that’s out of the way let’s learn some techniques on how to pick up woman.

How to pick up woman – tip 1 – Be yourself!

The easiest thing you can do when you are out picking up is to be yourself.  Trying to act like someone else is doomed to failure.  If you are a loud person then be a loud person, maybe tone it down a little bit, but in the end you need to attract a woman that likes a loud guy.  If you are shy then be shy.  Obviously you will have to step out of your comfort zone enough to say hello to a woman but tell her you are a little bit shy and play on your strengths.  You can still be shy and confident and with a cheeky smile you will be landing women left right and centre.

How to pick up woman – tip 2 – Be the best you can be!

What I mean by this is you really need to make the most of what you have got.  Go out clean and tidy with fashionable clothes, clean shoes, nice cologne and nice smelling breath.  Make sure your hair is done properly and don’t be afraid of actually spending some money on a nice hair style.  If you take pride in your appearance you will send signals to women that you are a proud guy who makes an effort in everything he does.  Women love men who make an effort.  They spend hours getting ready so why shouldn’t we take a little extra time on ourselves as well.

How to pick up woman – tip 3 – Push your fears aside!

This is probably the hardest thing to convince men.  Women don’t bite guys.  They are not to be feared.  Women need men just as much as we need them.  They might pretend to be superior to us in the dating stakes but at the end of the day they want someone to wake up next to each day as much as we do.  Stop being scared of women and start talking to them.  Talk to all of them.  Talk to girls you are interested in and those you are not interested in, talking will teach you so much about them and your levels of confidence will grow.

How to pick up woman – tip 4 – Ask them out!

As you are no longer scared of women and realise that rejection is part of life why not start to ask a few ladies out.  Ask any girl out and it doesn’t matter if you are not interested in her any more than a dinner companion or someone to take to the movies.  Practicing asking a woman out will help it seem more natural to you so when you see a woman you really want, you won’t be too scared to ask her out.  Remember as well that no matter how perfect you might be not every woman will go out with you.  Remember some are married and some might prefer the same sex.  Some might prefer tall guys or short guys or black guys or white guys.  Everyone is different.

How to pick up woman – tip 5 – Putting it all together!

If you practice each of the above tips and then put it all together when you see a woman you fancy your success rate will rise dramatically.  Being yourself, looking great, feeling confident and taking some action will ensure you don’t go home alone again.  It might not be the first woman you see or ask out but if you keep trying you will find a woman sooner rather than later.

Remember this guys, a woman needs a man as much as we need a woman.  If she is genuinely looking and is available and you have put yourself in the best possible position, then you will succeed.